The holidays are here, which means… joy, contentments, goodwill, peace on earth, stress.

And while there are lots of good ways to reduce your stress, an often overlooked antidote to holiday overwhelm is a formal gratitude practice. Which simply means, taking a little bit of time each day to deliberate reflect on what you’re grateful for.

Even if we can’t remove all the negatives from our lives, adding in more positives (or remembering the positives we already have) can have an overall uplifting effect.

While the popularity of formal gratitude practices has taken off lately, like any habit, it can be tough to actually establish and stick with.

Thankfully, you don’t need god-like willpower and discipline to make time for gratitude. You just need an easy routine to follow.

Here are a few simple steps you can take to begin practicing gratitude in your life, the benefits of which are myriad.

1. Use your phone

For better or worse, we’re all glued to our smartphones these days. But we can take advantage of this fact to practice gratitude better.

Commit initially to using your phone to practice gratitude.

While you may like the idea of practicing gratitude in a beautiful, artisanal leather-bound journal, the most important thing when starting any new habit or routine is to just get started and stick to it.

Once you’ve successfully established a habit of practicing gratitude, by all means, move on to a fancier analog method. But using your phone is a good way to just get started because it’s always with you.

Here are two steps to get yourself set up to practice gratitude with your phone:

  1. Create a note in your phone’s Notes App called “Gratitude.” That’s it.
  2. Set a recurring daily reminder to “practice gratitude” at the most convenient time of day.

Technically challenged? Here’s a quick video that will show you how to set a gratitude reminder on your phone:

2. Find the right time

I’ve worked with dozens of people to start keeping some form of gratitude journal or diary, and in my experience, the evening is the best time for most people.

The evening tends to be a little quieter, plus you’ve had a full day’s worth of experience to (hopefully) be grateful for.

Some common evening times to practice gratitude include:

One thing you’ll notice about all of these is that they are piggy-backed onto other existing habits. This is crucial for lazy people who want to establish a new habit, including practicing gratitude.

Pairing your new habit with an existing habit makes it far more likely that you’ll actually do it.

3. Keep it simple

You might need to sit down for this one:

You can practice gratitude in under than 30 seconds.

That’s right: establishing a daily gratitude practice can take about as much time as it takes to brush one quadrant of your teeth!

I recommend initially that you simply list one thing they’re grateful for each day.

Remember, in the beginning, establishing the habit is the most important priority. Once you’re in a good routine and it’s relatively automatic, then you can add more complexity.

Finally, remember that you’re not writing a dissertation on gratitude—a single sentence or phrase is good enough:

A few final thoughts:

But What Do You Think?

Thoughts? reactions? Questions? Let me know in the comments below:

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Comments

Nick, interesting that you wrote about this topic during our Thanksgiving a time of being thankful. I found a similar 30 day question on gratitude in a Green Bay, WI church bulletin. I copied it and handed it out to my children and grandchildren at our dinner. Even sent them to those who live away. We will all be here for Christmas and hope to have them share their answers with each other. Our 30 day homework assignment. And only ONE a day.

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